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March 2011

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Stopping Testosterone

On, February 21st, I was given my last shot of testosterone. I hadn’t planned for it to be my final dose; I was planning on staying on testosterone until at least mid-April. However, in late February, I began experiencing very intense bouts of anxiety, which were hindering my general ability to function as a person. Knowing that testosterone has led to experiences of increased anxiety in some people, I decided that it would be in my best interest to end my testosterone injections. When it was time for my next shot on March 7th, I couldn’t bear to think of putting anything in my body that could potentially make my anxiety worse.

I am still functioning in what feels like “surivival mode”. Each day is a battle with anxiety and depression, and my goal is just to maintain basic functioning (going to work, eating, sleeping) to the best of my ability and hope for my existence to feel like less of a struggle in each passing day. I do not believe that the anxiety and depression I’m experiencing are based on my issues with gender identity and gender presentation; I think they have more to do with my perception of myself and my life as a human being, beyond gender.

While I have enjoyed the changes that I was undergoing on testosterone and want the experience of physically transitioning (partially, at least) to continue, my gut is telling me that I should put such things on hiatus. I will not rule out the possibility of going back on testosterone some time in the future, but I do know that right at least for right now, it does not seem like a good decision to continue taking testosterone in the mental state I’m in.

Until I begin feeling better, I do not think I will be logging onto Tumblr or updating much. This is not a “goodbye” post, but more of a “see you later”. I hope you are all well.

Mar 26, 201114 notes
#stopping testosterone
Fuck Yeah FTMs of Color: For New Yorkers: TBD: March 7th, Transmasculine Group @ PHP → fuckyeahftmsofcolor.tumblr.com

fuckyeahftmsofcolor:

March 7th

Jacoby Ballard

Come learn ways to support yourself and loved ones through social and medical transitions. Using herbs, yoga, and nutrition as integral to good health, Jacoby will talk about supporting surgery, the side effects of hormones, and talk about the myths surrounding the use of herbs to transition.

Jacoby Ballard is an herbalist, health educator, and yoga teacher at Third Root Community Health Center in Brooklyn. His transition coincided with herbal and yoga education, and he specializes in holistic transgender health. He teaches 4 weekly Queer and Trans Yoga classes, and consults with dozens of trans clients. He has taught transhealth workshops at conferences and schools all over the Northeast, serves on the Trans Community Advisory Board at Callen-Lorde Community Health Center, and has authored two zines on holistic care for trans people.

To Be Determined
6:30-8pm, Bi-weekly
1st Monday-Special Event
3rd Monday- Support/Open discussion
Other Special Events to be scheduled on off weeks

Positive Health Project, New York
301 w 37th st. 3rd floor (black awning and glass doors)
Between 8th and 9th Aves
www.positivehealthproject.org

Mar 6, 20116 notes
#resources
Mar 5, 201112 notes
Awkward Gym Interactions

Guy: Hey, miss!

Me: *ignores*

Guy: *louder* Hey, miss! Hey, miss!

Me:*looks*

Guy: *says something inaudible*

Me: *walks over to guy* Huh?

Guy: Wait, are you a boy?

Me: Yeah.

Guy: Oh, shit. I was gonna say you look like someone in that movie…

Me: What actor?

Guy: That one with Patrick Swayze - she had short hair…

Me: Demi Moore?

Guy: Yeah, yeah!

Me: Oh…*awkward smile*

Guy: What happened to her career?

Me: Uh, I’m not sure…

Guy: *Talking to other person* Demi Moore was in that movie “Ghost”, right? *Points to me* That looks like her, right?

Other Guy: Yeah. I thought it was a shortie, too.

In the past when people have asked me if I was a boy or a girl, I would usually just say “girl” for safety  and confrontation-avoiding sake; I felt like people would be in such disbelief if I answered “boy” that there would have to be some awkward and potentially hostile follow-up conversation about how I don’t really look like a boy and such, and that somehow I would have to “prove” that I was male. Today was different, though. I’m sick of having to state that I’m a gender that I’m not really comfortable with. I mean, I’m not totally comfortable declaring I’m a “man” or “male”, but “boy” feels closer to my gender identity than “girl”.

Mar 5, 201111 notes
#awkward interactions
I stopped packing because it got in the way of sex. Do you feel that it does at all or do you feel like the benefits of packing are worth any inconvenience it may cause while doin it?

To be honest, I don’t soft-pack very often, and there are a couple of different reasons for that. To keep this concise, I’ll just say that I’m not comfortable with packing at work and that my current packer is kind of beat up and an unrealistic color (pink).

Regarding packing and sex, I personally never found that soft-packing interfered with anything. My main issue with is was that my packer would remain soft while clearly I felt “hard”, heh.

Hard-packing is something I think I’ve only done once or twice outside of my bedroom. I had to wear a huge T-shirt to cover up my boner and it was kind of uncomfortable. Then again, I was using a rather rigid cock and a two-strap harness that had metal pieces on it; maybe the experience would have been different if I was using a more flexible cock and a more comfortable harness.

Packing, both hard and soft, seems to be a very individualized practice. People have different reasons for packing, including decreasing bottom dysphoria and facilitating standing urination. Some people pack 100% of the time, others pack for special occasions, and some don’t pack at all. Check out this recent poll on the FTM Livejournal Community specifically about packing: http://www.livejournal.com/poll/?id=1657135 . Out of 166 participants, 31 people said they do pack, 88 said they don’t or rarely do, and 46 said that they pack “sometimes”. When, how, where, and why you choose to pack or not to pack is all based on your personal comfort level.

Ask me anything

Mar 4, 20115 notes
#formspring.me
Mar 4, 20113 notes
#facial hair #changes on testosterone
Mar 4, 201112 notes
#body hair #changes on testosterone
I know that you take a low dose of T and I was wondering if you did that yourself or if your endo was okay with it because it seems like if you want to be on a lower dose "then you must not want T" and I don't really want to run into that.

The primary care physician I saw (who works at a very trans-friendly clinic) had originally prescribed for me to take 100mg/every other week. However, my first three injections were actually 50mg/every other week because the nurses misinterpreted the concentration of my T.. When my doctor informed me of this error, I told her I wanted to stay at the low dose because I wanted my changes to be very gradual. She was fine with that, and I would hope that other health care providers would be willing to accommodate the wishes of patients who rather have slower changes.

Some providers require their patients to stay on a lower dose, such as 50mg/every other week, during the first few weeks or months of  transition before prescribing an increase to a more “typical” dose.

Mar 4, 2011
Peecock Prosthetic: 3-in-1 Pack, Pee and Play

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I haven’t really seen this advertised anywhere or read any testimonials about it (besides the one review on the site), but Peecock Products offers relatively cheap and versatile cocks in three different sizes. It seems like the only colors they are currently offering are “moderate brown” and “dark brown”. 

The site also sells a packing harness and a few different styles of binders.

(PS - Hi! I’ve been completely out of the Tumblr loop since this weekend. Hope you’re all doing well)

Mar 3, 201175 notes
#cocks
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