Ask Surly Amy: Natural Transitioning for FTMs →
A lengthy, informative response to the concept of Natural Transition. Be sure to check out the comments, as well.
queer30 asked: Leo: We've created a community for people on the queer spectrum who don't feel like they fit in with the younger Tumblr crowd, but not quite old enough to mesh with the older crowd. Basically the rest of us who are out of college, working, paying rent, and building our lives. We think you might share our idea of being queer and out in the adult playground and would greatly appreciate a...
Anonymous asked: You're so cndfjs attractive.
Submission: in response to your post about bottom...
I can really relate to how you feel about focusing on your cock and its existence while being sexual. I’ve never had sex but sometimes I worry that my phallocentric masturbatory habits will become rigid sexual scripts which I use to enact and affirm my sense of maleness to myself during future sexual activities with others. Actually admitting these fears to myself seems to have helped me....
thankyouthankyouthankyou for the TBD info, for the...
You’re very welcome! :) Ask me anything
Anonymous asked: hey, i noticed that you attended TBD in NCY (trans* group) and was wondering if you still know anything about it. mainly if they are willing to give away binders, and how i could get in contact with them. i have been trying to get a binder for a very long time now (i dont have the means to get my own) so any info would be greatly appreciated.
TBD - Trans masculine support group in NYC
(This group had disappeared for a while, but it seems to be up and running now) TBD Positive Health Project (PHP) presents… To Be Determined, a bi-weekly drop in social/support gathering for anyone who was assigned female at birth but feels that is an incorrect or incomplete label. Anyone who identifies on the trans-masculine spectrum and/or genderqueers are so welcome and encouraged to...
Mr. Transman 2011 →
Tonight! (I’m sad that I won’t be able to make it)
fruzz-deactivated20111126-deact asked: There is a conference happening in Toronto to discuss sex and relationships over the first weekend of November. Might be of interest to you. It's called the "playgroundconf".
How come you haven't product reviewed in a while?
I haven’t purchased any new erotic products recently. I was thinking of doing a review of a product I’ve had for a while, though - the Hitachi Magic Wand. Ask me anything
fat-feminist asked: I'm very sorry you're going through that with your mom. :(
re: your PFLAG fail. Strictly speaking, bras are...
So very true. Ask me anything
I saw that post about the PFLAG fail, and I just...
Thank you, and I’m sorry to hear about your mom’s initial reaction. The fact that my mom, after a few years, accepted the fact that I partner with female-identified people gives me a glimmer of hope that maybe someday she can accept that I am trans*. Ask me anything
My mom and I are going to be attending a fundraiser on Sunday and will be in the company of other family members and friends of the family. Mom: Can I ask a favor of you? Me: Okay. Mom: Can you wear a sports bra instead of that other horrible thing? It’s unnatural. Me: [subject change] Verbally defending myself hasn’t helped, neither have tears nor a suicide attempt. It’s...
Art of Transliness: "All you need is T" →
kyintees: Maybe I’m the only one who has noticed the pressure other transguys give those who aren’t on Testosterone (T). Maybe I’m the only one who gets crazy irked by it? If someone is venting on FYFTMS, Youtube, Facebook, or anywhere else about how difficult it is to “pass” or how horrendous it is that no one takes them seriously when it comes to their transition, you see a slew of...
Shaan: Transfeminine FTM →
Transmasculine has often been a word used as a synonym to FTM. I disagree with the term (or at least how it is used). Not all transmen are masculine, nor want to be. There’s a misconception that if one transitions they must suddenly become the next Brock Lesner (for FTMs) or Eva Longoria (for MTFs). It’s similar to how society tells cisgender men/women they have to be dirty, sweaty, football...
I know I come off as very confident about my cock on this blog, but truthfully, it a prominent source of insecurity for me. During sex, I devote so much of my focus to reinforcing the existence of my cock that I feel my experience of sexual gratification is compromised.